为什么Would you mind+my doing sth?MY?

Would you mind [my] taking this seat 为什么用my》? Would you mind my using the car?为什么用my 为什么Would you mind+my doing sth?MY? Would you mind mine smoking here?还是 Would you mind my smoking here?为什么? Would you mind me closing和Would you mind my closing为什么都可以? Would you mind my coming with you mind后面为什么用my而不用me would you mind my going with you 为什么mind 后面接的是my 不是me would you mind my open the window为什么不用ME? 为什么would you mind 后接my不接me Would you mind my smoking here 为什么mind后面用my? Would you mind me opening that door?和 Would you mind my closing the window?为什么mind后面第一句接me第二句却用my? Would you mind my coming with you?为什么要用my呢? would you mind my listening to music with my cousin?为什么mind后用my,而不用me? would you mind my smoking here Would you mind being my date? Would you mind my doing 如何回答 Would you mind teaching my reading? Would you mind my opening the windows?为什么这里用的是my?would you mind my doing sth这个句型貌似没有的吧?